There’s Nothing More Romantic Than… #Romance @esthernewton201


As I am busy writing romance (*sigh*) I thought I would offer guest bloggers the chance to come and post something witty about romance.

Esther Newton is someone I met through the Annual Bloggers Bash Awards. She always makes me smile and has a mischievous look in her eye a lot of the time, so I knew she had to appear on my blog.

Here’s the fabulous Esther Newton.

As some of you will know, I’ve had a bit of a blogging break; yes, it was only meant to be a brief pause, but it’s ended up being much longer than I ever anticipated. And I’ve missed it. So, when Lucy asked me if I’d like to write a guest blog about romance, I found myself nodding and relishing getting back into blogging. Then the reality set in. Romance???? What on earth am I going to write about romance?

I thought I’d apply the principle I use when trying to come up with an idea for a short story – write down the first ten things that come to mind and go for the last one as it’ll be a little different. So, here’s what I came up with:

There’s nothing more romantic than…

1. Love
2. Hearts
3. Flowers
4. Dating
5. Kissing
6. Sex
7. Weddings
8. Holding hands
9. Love letters
10. The first dance at a wedding

Great. My tenth answer was ‘The first dance at a wedding’. Really? Couldn’t I have made life a little easier for myself? I suppose I could have lied. I could have tweaked things, changed a few of the ideas round, but that wouldn’t have felt right. So ‘the first dance at a wedding’ was what it was.

Now, I want you to imagine the moment: the DJ asks the happy couple to take centre stage on the dance floor for the first dance. And what song starts to play? I Will Always Love You by Whitney Houston? My Heart Will Go On by Celine Dion? I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing by Aerosmith? At my own wedding we chose (did we really? I can’t stand the song so I’m not convinced) Still the One by Shannia Twain. What was yours?

I don’t know about you, but I started to think wouldn’t it be more fun to do something a little different? Something no one would expect? All the friends and family could be crowding round, watching the besotted couple gaze into each other’s eyes, as everyone waits for the first strains of a love song…only for ACDC’s The Ace of Spades to belt through the speakers and the loved-up couple to start head banging. And I’m sure none of the guests would expect the couple’s first dance track to be The Birdy song by The Tweets and I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For by U2 would definitely cause a few jaws to drop. As for my own first dance, I think I might still go with Shannia Twain, but I much prefer That Don’t Impress Me Much. I’m not quite sure my husband would have agreed…

A huge thanks to Lucy for having me as a guest on her blog. It’s been a joy and made me want to start writing my own again.

For those of you who don’t know anything about me, I have my own editing services. If you’d like to know more about how I can help, please contact me: I’m also a writing tutor for The Writers Bureau as well as a freelance writer and editor of a cat magazine for a charity.


LOL Esther! I am loving the alternative first dance music selections. When my fictional character Roxy Collins gets married I might have to use some of these. 

Thank you for this. 

Have a fabulous day!


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Lucy Mitchell lives in South Wales with her husband, her two teenage daughters, a giant labrador and a gang of unruly cats. Lucy is the author of the award winning blog, BlondeWriteMore and was a Featured Romance Author on Wattpad. When she’s not working or writing, Lucy can be found listening to audiobooks in a muddy field with her dog or sat outside her local pub in the sunshine enjoying a glass of wine. Her debut novel Instructions Falling In Love Again is OUT now and already pulling in some fabulous reviews ❤️

21 thoughts on “There’s Nothing More Romantic Than… #Romance @esthernewton201

  1. Great post! I love watching the funky first dance videos that people post on YouTube. If – IF – I ever got married again I’d have to do something daft as my first dance. 😉

  2. Our first dance was “How Long Will I Love You” by Jon Boden (also performed by Ellie Goulding– my favored version). I’m a sap, though, and couldn’t have gone alternative! 😉

    1. Although… now that I’m thinking about it, if I DID decide to go outside the box, I think I would go with “Everybody” by the Backstreet Boys: “Am I everything you need, you better rock your body now!” If only I could get my husband to learn the dance!

  3. Great to see you back, Esther. Your post reminded me of the movie ‘Muriel’s Wedding’ where she walks down the aisle to ABBA’s ‘I do, I do, I do.’ Not quite the first dance, but that moment in the movie had me in stitches.
    I don’t know if you remember, but you challenged me to write a ‘rom-com.’ I’ve done it, although it’s not been seen by anybody yet. I’ll send it over to you sometime.
    Hope you’re well.
    Hugs from me.

    1. Not sure how to leave a comment as all I see are places to reply to another’s comments.
      So I guess I’ll leave it here.

      Fun! Esther, I like the way you go about picking a topic. I’ll have to try that.
      We didn’t have a wedding dance, just a short reception at the church after the ceremony. The ceremony was about 20 minutes and the reception another hour? I don’t know how long the reception was but for sure no one had to sit around waiting for us to show up drunk from the party bus.
      I love the first dances with the couple and their parents. So special. My son picked out a special song for us to dance to, and I need to ask him for the name of the song again as I’ve forgotten it.
      Thanks for the romance!

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