Meeting Your Online Blogging Friend In Real Life – The Key Stages #MondayBlogs #BloggingGals


You can build some great connections online with other bloggers. With some blogging connections it can feel like you have found your online Best Friend Forever (BFF), even though you’ve never actually met face to face.

Meeting your online BFF in real life can get a little crazy.

As I have met most of my online blogging friends at blogging events, I have used this scenario – the blogging event (conference or awards ceremony) to show you the key stages.

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25 Things You Don’t See When You Read a Blog Post #Bloggers #BloggingGals #Writer


My recent post titled 35 Things You Don’t See When You Buy a Book proved popular, so I thought I would see if I could come up with a similar list for blog posts.

A lot of time, effort and creative suffering can go into the production of a blog post, which sadly the blog reader doesn’t get to see.

So, here are the things you don’t see when you read a blog post.

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12 Things Your Creative Dreams Will Do To You When You Decide To Follow Them #Monday Blogs #MondayMotivation



Creative dreams can be pesky little things. They will do whatever they can to persuade you to follow them and once you do decide to go after them, you will be at their mercy!

Here are 12 things your creative dreams will do to you once you start to pursue them:

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10 Things My Creative Friends Have Taught Me #Monday Blogs #BloggingGals #AmWriting


2016 was the year I started listening to those around me. After spending the first part of the year dismissing advice and top tips from my creative friends (as I thought I knew best… sigh!) I thought I would do something different in the second half of last year.

So I listened, took advice and almost immediately started squeaking “oh my goodness you were right!”

As you can imagine readers I received a lot ofΒ eye rolls last year and the πŸ™„ emoji was well used.

Here are 10 things my creative friends have taught me:

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28 Reasons Why A Writer Might Be Having A Sleepless Night #Writer #AmWriting


There are so many reasons why a writer might be having a sleepless night:

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How an Act of Creative Kindness Can Turn Around a Bad Writing Day #MondayBlogs #Writers



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Acts of creative kindness can be really powerful. They are great to receive but the feeling you get from helping another troubled creative soul is pretty special.

I recently experienced a bad writing day. It didn’t start well and turned into a day of battling against negativity and self-doubt. So I took immediate action. I stuffed some chocolate into my mouth, drew some dark shadowy figures in my diary, sulked on the loo and had a strong coffee.

I managed to recover some of the day, but I still wasn’t feeling the creative love. Half of me wanted to write the day off as a ‘bad day’ and just forget it.

Then I received a cry for help from one of my creative friends, who was struggling to make sense of a project. She was lost in the detail and desperately needed a fresh pair of eyes to help make sense of it.

So I put down my project and went to her aid.

I told myself “just because I am having a bad and unsalvageable writing day, it doesn’t mean I can’t help turn around someone else’s day!”

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How To Tell If Your Child Is Going To Be A Blogger #SundayBlogShare #BloggingGals #Bloggers


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Following on from my post ‘How To Tell If Your Child Is Going To Be A Writer,’ I thought I should do a post on how to tell if your child is going to be a blogger.

You might already believe your child Β will be a future blogger, as they are a whiz on your tablet and can name all the main forms of social media.

But have you checked for the not so obvious signs?

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Author Interviews @IcySedgwick #writers #author #WeekendBlogShare

Author Interviews

Hello and welcome to my weekly blog series – Author Interviews.

These weekly author interviews give me good reason to stalk / pester some of my favourite authors and beg them to come sit in my red interview chair. I like these interviews because I think I find out about the person behind the books and glean some writing tips.

This week I bubbling with excitement. When I was at the Annual Bloggers Bash Awards in London this year I met Icy Sedgwick, a very inspirational writer and an author who has ventured onto Youtube. From the moment we started talking I knew she would be a fab person to interview.

Here is pic of Icy and I at the Annual Bloggers Bash Awards, check us out looking all creative and sophisticated!


So after much pestering on my part I am thrilled to welcome Icy Sedgwick!

Hey Icy!Β WelcomeΒ to my blog and to my red interview chair. Please take a virtual seat and make yourself comfortable. Wow this is so cool!

Tell my lovely readers all about yourself

Hello! I’m a Geordie, and by day I teach graphic design and advertising. By night, I write dark fantasy, weird Westerns, and Gothic tales…and I’m also doing a part time PhD in Film Studies.

I’ve got three ‘main’ books, two Westerns (The Guns of Retribution and To Kill A Dead Man) and the start of a dark fantasy trilogy (The Necromancer’s Apprentice). But I’ve also got two short story collections. Harbingers: Dark Tales of Speculative Fiction is actually free on my website at the moment.

When did you write your first book?

I first finished one way back in 2008 for NaNoWriMo. Well, that was the first draft, anyway. It was about 53,000 words and I was just so pleased to have written ‘The End’ on something longer than 3000 words.

How long did it take to write your first book?

Just over a month for that first version. But I’ve gone back and edited and rewritten so many times, it’s only just finally finished now! Please, don’t take eight years to write a book. That’s just silly.

What was your motivation to write your first book?

For my first published book, I got an email from the owner of a small press who’d read some of my short flash stories on my blog, and he asked me if I wanted to write a themed novella for him. I jumped at the chance! Nothing like having someone waiting on you to keep you on track. That novella went on to become The Guns of Retribution.

What writing issues did you encounter along the way and how did you overcome them?

I’ve had a couple. The Guns of Retribution started out as third person past tense, then became first person present tense, then ended up as first person past tense. Plus the main character changed his job halfway through and went from being an outlaw to a bounty hunter. I just kept going because I’d been asked to write it and I didn’t want to let them down. It wasn’t really the end of the world though, just a bit of a pain during the rewrite!

Did you go through any bad writing patches during writing your book – what kept you going?

During the one I’m working on at the moment, it wasn’t so much a bad patch as a dry period, but I was working on an academic book at the same time and I couldn’t get back into the fiction head space. Luckily I switched back when the academic one was done. But what kept me going was just wanting to get the story told because I knew what the book after it would be about.

Are you a plotter or do you just write / see what happens?

When I start a story I have an idea of the beginning, the rough bit in the middle, and the ending. Then I just make it up as I go along between those points. It’s like knowing you’re going to start in London, and you want to get to Birmingham, and then you’ll end up in Leeds, but where you end up going in between is entirely a matter of chance!

What is the best thing about being a writer?

Being able to do horrible things to people who’ve been mean to you by hiding them inside a character. No, in all honesty, I think it’s being able to have these fun adventures in your head, and then share them with other people.

What is the worst thing about being a writer?

The fact that some people expect you to work for free. If you even DARE expect remuneration for what you do, you either get “Well I can get everything else for free, why should I pay for it?” or “But writing is Art. You can’t put a price on Art”. Evidently these people have never seen the sums the work in the Turner Prize goes for.

Have you ever considered quitting writing, and if so how have you worked through this?

I thought about it once, and I just thought “Yeah, I’m not getting anywhere”, so I decided I’d finish my work in progress, and pack it all in. Of course by the time I finished I’d forgotten that I’d decided to do that until about four months later, by which point I was neck deep in something else. I’m so glad I didn’t tell anyone I was going to quit otherwise I’d have looked silly!

What does a typical writing day look like for you?

I don’t have one. Because I have so many other things to work on as well as writing fiction, I might only get in ten minutes of writing in a day. That might be at work over lunch, or it might be longhand on the way to work, or it might be on my laptop when I get home. I dream of the days when I can set aside entire days just to write…and I know I’ll spend those days doing quizzes to find out which Disney villain I’d be.

Do you suffer from procrastination and if so how do you handle it?

I procrastinate like nobody’s business, and I can tell I’m doing it because I get sucked into working on entirely the wrong thing. I keep colour coded To Do lists in Google Keep so if I realise I’ve spent more than 20 minutes on something relatively trivial, I’ll have a look at my list and see if it was something I needed to do. If yes, I keep doing it. If not, I put it aside and go back to what I should be doing.

Which is more important – plot or characters and why?

For me it’s probably plot, but I’m not really a people person. But you can’t have a plot without characters, and normal people relate to other people, so ultimately characters win over plot. Think about it – we remember Frodo, and Harry, and Luke Skywalker, and they’re the people we discuss, or dress up as. We don’t re-enact plots or talk about which narrative we’d be. So I think characters are terribly important to a good story.

What have been your 3 biggest learnings during your writing career?

  1. You’ll never stop learning, so don’t punish yourself for realising you don’t know everything.
  2. Stop using words like ‘He looked at X’ – just describe whatever it is. We know he must be looking at it because the book’s from his POV.
  3. If it stops being fun, find a way to make it fun again.

How do you manage social media as a writer?

I find so many little pockets throughout the day, like sitting on the train going to work, or waiting in queues, or whatever. I do a lot of my social media then. Or I’ll have the different platforms open all day, so I can drop in and out between tasks or on breaks. I actually enjoy using social media though so I tend to make time to fit them in. I don’t see it as ‘marketing’, it’s just talking to cool or interesting people. That’s one of the reasons why I started to experiment with my Youtube channel, to be able to feel like I was talking to viewers, rather than blogging at them. But I’m going to shake that up a bit!

Do you have any tips or advice for budding aspiring authors?

Read as much as you can. Fiction, preferably, but good non-fiction can be an awesome source of inspiration. You’ll subconsciously soak up how to tell a story, and how to do it well. I also recommend watching films – not necessarily for structure, because films can do things that books can’t since they’re a visual medium, but definitely for dialogue, or character arcs. Just soak up stories. You’ll learn so much. And stop calling yourself ‘aspiring’. If you write, then you’re a writer.

I did share writing tips over on my blog for a while, which you can find here, but I’ve put those on the back burner while I overhaul things a bit!

Do you suffer from writer’s block and if so how do you overcome?

My writer’s block always comes from one of two things; I’m either not sure what needs to happen next in the story, or I’ve got too many other things going on at the same time and I can’t focus. If it’s the former, I just skip ahead to the next bit that I KNOW I want to write, and write from that point. I go back and fill in the gap later. If it’s the latter, then I try to take some time to read or draw, or do something creative, which slows me down enough to get my head back to the story.

Do you ever think of the next book whilst writing?

Always. I’ve usually got a few things on the go mentally while I’m writing one book (or short story) and it’s really difficult not to just start working on the others. So I keep separate notes in Evernote for each project and just add anything to those, so when I’m ready to start the next book, or story, I’ve got a starting point.

What do you wear to write?

I don’t really have a set writing routine, so I wear whatever I have on at the time. I love the idea of glamourous people like Jackie Collins looking amazing as they sit down to let the words flow…but as I type this I’m wearing tracksuit pants and a black vest. I’m so stylish it physically hurts.

If readers want to get in touch how do they contact you?

They can email me at, or they can follow me on Twitter @IcySedgwick! I love Twitter. I probably spend too much time on it!

Thanks Icy, fabulousΒ interview!Β 

Things I have taken from our chat:

  • Wow – love how you got a call from the owner of a small press and that resulted in a themed novella! I also like how the novella grew into something bigger.Β 
  • Love your phrase to describe writing ‘fun adventures in your head’ – if only my readers knew about the fun adventures I go on inside my head…
  • Your writer learnings are great! I must go through my draft and eliminate ‘he looked at..’Β 
  • I will check out your writing tips blog posts.Β 
  • Tracksuit pants and a black vest sounds chic!Β 

ThankΒ you Icy – love it!

Love the Youtube –Β just been watching your ‘Write What You Know’ episode. One day Icy I will venture on there too.Β 

Have a great day all!

If you have written a book and you want to sit in my chair please leave me a comment with contact details.

When You Are Happy In Your Writer Skin #MondayBlogs #writer

When You Are Comfortable In Your Writer Skin

When you are happy in your writer skin you:

  1. Enjoy your writing.
  2. Accept that you have writing strengths and weaknesses.
  3. Work with your creative muse.
  4. Don’t place unrealistic expectations on your writing.
  5. Enjoy the act of sharing your writing with others.
  6. Don’t feel embarrassed about being a writer.
  7. Encourage others with their writing craft.
  8. Take steps to improve your weaknesses.
  9. Don’t place unrealistic expectations on first drafts.
  10. Look forward to working with the fictional folk who live inside your head.
  11. Accept that there will be good times and bad times but nothing will stop you from sitting down to write.
  12. Look forward to sitting down and creating worlds, people and situations.
  13. Accept that some people will like what you write and some won’t.
  14. Accept that some days words will trickle and some days they will pour out of you.
  15. Are proud of the fact that you can write thousands and thousands of words.
  16. Feel grateful that you were born with a creative mind.
  17. Fall hopelessly in love with your story and forget about everything else in the world. 
  18. Forget about pleasing everyone and write for yourself. 
  19. Decide that chasing literary stardom can wait because you are quite happy with just writing and sharing.

Have a fabulous day and may your words flow πŸ™‚

Be happy in your writer skin! 

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How Blogging Daily For One Year Has Changed My Life #MondayBlogs #BloggingGals

How Blogging Daily For One Year Changed My Life

This time last year I thought it would be a good idea to blog every day for twelve months.

I wanted to know whether it would do anything to my writing or give me some direction in my creative life. Last year I had just finished writing a bad thriller novel and wasn’t feeling the literary love.

If I now look back at myself I can’t believe how far I have come and what I have achieved. I put a lot of this down to daily blogging.

Here are the things that I have learnt as a result of daily blogging:

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