How an Act of Creative Kindness Can Turn Around a Bad Writing Day #MondayBlogs #Writers

Acts of creative kindness can be really powerful. They are great to receive but the feeling you get from helping another troubled creative soul is pretty special.

I recently experienced a bad writing day. It didn’t start well and turned into a day of battling against negativity and self-doubt. So I took immediate action. I stuffed some chocolate into my mouth, drew some dark shadowy figures in my diary, sulked on the loo and had a strong coffee.

I managed to recover some of the day, but I still wasn’t feeling the creative love. Half of me wanted to write the day off as a ‘bad day’ and just forget it.

Then I received a cry for help from one of my creative friends, who was struggling to make sense of a project. She was lost in the detail and desperately needed a fresh pair of eyes to help make sense of it.

So I put down my project and went to her aid.

I told myself “just because I am having a bad and unsalvageable writing day, it doesn’t mean I can’t help turn around someone else’s day!”

We talked it through and it was like another part of my brain came alive. I got out a pencil, some paper and drew a chart. We then went through each bit of her project and used the chart to plot out the different elements.

Some time later and our impressive looking chart had solved her issue. She went away happy and I went back to my draft novel feeling refreshed and energised.

Helping my creative friend changed my bad writing day:

  • I was able to use a different part of my brain, which I think is great to do when you are stuck on a mammoth project like writing a book.
  • The buzz I got from helping someone else gave me some confidence and a nice feeling inside.
  • Going back to basics with a pencil and a piece of paper did something for me. I know it sounds silly but I went back to feeling like I was actually creating something. This is what being a creative person is all about. It is really easy to lose sight of this when you are just typing into a laptop for hours on end.
  • I felt like I had a made a difference to someone else’s writing day.

 

So, the next time you are having a bad writing day, see if you can perform an act of creative ย kindness for another troubled soul. It can be big or small.

The important thing is you reach ย out.

Acts of creative kindness are good for the soul.

Have a great day!

 

If you are still having a bad day after all this listen to my free podcast ‘The Diary of Roxy Collins’ – Roxy’s dating adventures and motherhood issues will definitely bring a smile to your face.

 

 

Posted by

I am a blonde writer of romantic comedy fiction.

48 thoughts on “How an Act of Creative Kindness Can Turn Around a Bad Writing Day #MondayBlogs #Writers

  1. Sounds like a combination of things worked for you. There is something extra creative about holding a pen or pencil. The only problem I have these days is that I can’t read what I’ve written. As for the helping others, it’s a bit like (but not quite) that old saying that the best way to learn is to teach. It does reignite the creative flame, doesn’t it?
    Great post, Lucy, with some terrific imagery – though I’ll try to blank out the one of you sitting on the loo.

    1. Hey Graeme, I don’t know what has happened to me this week but in Thursday’s post I am going to be mentioning loos again. I think my blogging days are going downhill…thx for reading.

  2. Funny how timely your post was. I was facing a bad weekend and a busy week but went along to my first writing group here in the UK on Sunday. I was a bit cross when I got there and saw that of the 5 who had registered, only one person other than myself had bothered to show up. I could have stamped off, but instead we just sat down and gave each other feedback and it ended up being a very good session indeed.

  3. Completely agree. It doesn’t always work out that someone needs your help right when you need help, but, when it does, it’s magic. Seriously. It’s easier to help others than ourselves and, when we do, it often resets our mind/attitude/confidence.

  4. I really like this post! It’s so true how helping someone else makes our brains start to work again. Thanks for the reminder!

  5. Oh, I like this post very much, Lucy. I found it uplifting and encouraging and what struck me was how the “Universe” worked its synchronicity by connecting you with someone for you to help and consequently connect with your creative self. Nice! ๐Ÿ™‚ No Man (or woman) is an island.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s